Were there Men's Rights Activists in the '60s?
Don't be fooled by the title of the 1965 film How to Murder Your Wife. It's not really a black comedy about getting away with a crime or combining death with the usual conventions of the romantic comedy. It's not even fair to call it a Battle of the Sexes comedy -- common in the age of Rock Hudson and Doris Day -- because calling it a "battle" implies that there are two sides. In this movie, the women are the enemy and the men are the victims until they're just not going to take it anymore. Its gender politics aren't just outdated for 1965; they predate 1935, too.
Jack Lemmon plays Stanley Ford, a hugely successful cartoonist and confirmed bachelor whose comic strip Brash Brannigan is beloved in town. After getting drunk and blacking out one night, Stanley awakens next to the woman who jumped out of the cake at a party (Virna Lisi). It turns they're married; she's from Italy, speaks no English and refuses to get divorced because it's not acceptable in her culture. To help with communication, Stanley pairs his new bride up with Edna Lampson (Claire Trevor), the shrewish wife of Stanley's lawyer and close friend Harold (Eddie Mayehoff), who speaks Italian and is willing to translate but who ends up passing along her nagging ways to the gorgeous Lisi. As his wife continues to wreak havoc on Stanley's real life, so she does on his fictional life as a secret agent in the pages of Brash Brannigan. So Stanley devises a plan to kill of "Brash's" wife. It's so convincing that, coupled with the disappearance of Lisi, the police are sure Stanley killed his spouse for real.
Jack Lemmon is one of the only actors to ever live who could pull off this material without having the audience turn on him completely (Jimmy Stewart is another; Scott Adkins a third). There's something that still feels good-natured about his put-upon befuddlement, and even when he's on trial for murder maintains such a relaxed screen presence that the movie remains a breezy lark when it would otherwise be infuriating. As his adoring but possibly misguided wife, Virna Lisi is beautiful but not allowed to be much else -- her character is not even given a name, in case you're still not sure of the movie's attitudes towards women. Would that there had been more scenes of her and Stanley actually getting to know one another and falling in love, as it might have helped balance out acridity of all the constant complaining: women want to change us, women want to run our lives, women make us gain weight (?), women be shopping. The climax of the movie finds Stanley getting a man to admit that if he could rid of his wife and know that he could get away with it, he would. That should have been the ending: the women call the men's bluff and disappear, fulfilling their "wishes" and leaving them to themselves. Ending with these men alone and miserable would at least have put the rest of the film into perspective.
I know I'm being too hard on How to Murder Your Wife. None of it is meant to be taken seriously, and I suspect the filmmakers knew they were making a dinosaur even in 1965 -- it plays like the desperate rantings of a population that senses the changing of the tides and can do nothing but shake its fists against it. At two hours, the movie is criminally overlong (two sequences in which Stanley plays out his Brash Brannigan fantasies in real life feel like they go on FOREVER) and too ready to play the same notes again and again. Lemmon keeps it afloat, though, twinkling without an ounce of meanness -- it's all a goof, his performance tells us. Everything else feels like a relic from a period long-gone. As a time capsule, it's an amusing diversion...even if it does leave a bitter aftertaste.
Blu-ray release date: February 17, 2015
118 minutes/1965/NR
1.66:1 widescreen (1080p)
DTS HD 1.0 Mono (English)
Bonus features: None
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Jesus. I love Jack Lemmon as an actor with pretty much zero reservations, but this sounds like something even I couldn't quite get on board with.
ReplyDeleteJust curious, what are your thoughts on the John Wayne movie McLintock? I love Wayne in general, and I had a deep love for this movie when I was a kid. I considered it one of my favorites. As I got older, though, I realized just how brazenly misogynistic it is. I mean it's a movie that openly condones hitting your wife to keep her in line. My secret shame, though, is that I still enjoy it. Am I evil, or am I just overcome with nostalgia and my love for the Duke?
ReplyDeleteFor those very reasons "The Quiet Man" has lost some of it's luster for me as well.
DeleteI think part of the reason I give those two movies a pass is because Maureen O'Hara is so great in them that she makes me believe she's okay with what's happening. Like that's what she's been trying to get him to do the whole time. Not saying this is a healthy psychology, just that while I'm watching the movie I buy it haha.
DeleteI agree about Maureen O'Hara, particularly because you know in real life this wouldn't be something she would put up with I don't think. Apparently one of the few people male or female that would go talk to Wayne or Ford when one of the other crew members were upset. most of them were too scared. She is a kick arse lady. I hope to go to the festival in her home town in Ireland so I can celebrate her movies and meet her :) Mclintock is one I am very uncomfortable with though so I prefer Parent trap haha
DeleteI totally get why you can't enjoy McLintock. I really have no justifiable excuse other than an early attachment to it. Watching old movies like these make me wonder how Gone Girl caught hell for sexism. I can't really explain without spoilers, but I didn't feel like Gone Girl made any broad statements about gender. It just had characters. Some of these older movies, however, are clearly insulting.
DeleteI don't think you are being overly harsh at all. i caught this on TV and thought it was abhorrent in its views on women so I was relieved when I saw this review in a strange feeling of solace or something.
ReplyDeleteHey kids, this movie is satire. Love and Marriage win in the end! The film is hilarious, sorry you missed it.
ReplyDelete"I can recognize that Birth of a Nation is horribly racist, but I must also accept that it is a product of its time and consider it thusly."
ReplyDeleteI don't know if this argument does hold up. Even considering the time it's a deeply racist movie and a lot of smart people saw it that way even back then and protestet against it. Obviously (or not that obviously watching todays conflict in the US or, in my case, Germany) we came further in that question, which is good, and back then there were also a lot of people who took the shown statements for granted - I give you that. My point is: We can consider movies as "masterpieces" or "great films" if we see them and their accomplishments in the framed perspective of there time, but we are definitely allowed to and even should criticize them if we simply know it better. So you're right to do it, to point it out and mention it in your review and I think you do not even have to apologize for beeing too harsh, if this movie is giving you a bad feeling about the message presented.
I saw this movie in theaters when it first came out and even then we saw it as making great fun of the whole Playboy mindset. It was over the top for a reason. NO bachelor has a pad like Jack Lemmon has in this film. NO butler is as anti-woman crazed as Terry Thomas ans we laughed at his antics in this regard. Even the music is overblown and melodramatic. And don't forget that in the end, after winning his court case for murdering his wife (which he didn't actually do) he wants his wife back desperately. It winkingly makes fun of the whole male-chauvinist mentality and punctures the Playboy mindset as the absurdity it was while purporting itself as supporting it.
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